How A Woman Can Reach Orgasm During Intercourse
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How A Woman Can Reach Orgasm During Intercourse

By: Robert D. Thomson

Most women do not reach orgasm during sexual intercourse. Happily there are several ways a couple can improve the chance of a woman reaching orgasm.

And men, if you have a sneaking feeling this doesn't matter, remember your woman wants to reach orgasm - and she certainly isn't going to be too happy if sex is limited to you getting off and then ignoring her needs. The best way to keep her happy is to make sure she's had her orgasm before you reach orgasm and ejaculate, and there are several sexual positions which are more likely to make this happen.

So, without further ado, here's our suggested list of sex positions that will let a woman achieve orgasm during intercourse.

First of all, if you haven't tried the woman on top sex position, then check it out! Many women like being uppermost when it comes to making love - it's a sex position that allows a woman to move in the way that gives her the greatest pleasure, whether that's through clitoral stimulation or G spot stimulation. She can move around much more in this position, and because she's in control of her movements, she's likely to get some orgasmic satisfaction.

She can either press her clitoris against the shaft of his penis, rub it against his body, or lean back or forwards so that her G spot gets the pressure it needs to give her pleasure. If the man can last long enough before he ejaculates, this is the position that gives a woman the greatest chance of reaching orgasm during intercourse.

If she wants to increase the sensation in her vagina, she can use her PC muscles to squeeze his penis: that will increase his pleasure, and it will certainly increase the pressure on her G spot - and most likely increase the chances of her ejaculating when she reaches orgasm. If her G spot is stimulated for long enough, when she reaches orgasm, the fluid that collects in glands around her urethra may squirt out during her orgasmic contractions.

Another advantage of woman on top sex is that the man can fondle his partner's breasts, and caress them as she moves on top. Of course, if she's facing away from her lover, he has the pleasure of watching her buttocks as she moves. But a lot of men find this position uncomfortable, as it bends their penis too much.

And what next? Well, the good old missionary. But before you groan, think again. Many women love missionary position sex, because it allows for those deep moments of intimacy and connection that women adore. And men like them too! Sex in the man on top position, with her legs bent upwards, her knees nearer her chest, allows for deep penetration and lots of loving and kissing. And if the man has a penis that curves upwards when it's erect, as many do, then the man on top variations will allow him to stimulate her G spot during lovemaking. Combine this with a little clitoral play (perhaps by placing a vibrator between you both as you make love) and you have the best of all possible worlds for her!

As a refinement, the man can stop thrusting and move his hips in a circular pattern - that's called Churning The Butter in Tantric sex circles, and it can send her into orbit. Another variation: try eight shallow thrusts followed by one deep one. The shallow thrust should just press on her G spot, so the man shouldn't go more than a couple of inches into her in this routine.
Another great idea for her to reach orgasm is to have her sitting on a table with her legs apart - or any other surface where she's the right height for the man to enter her while he's standing in front of her - and to thrust into her while kissing and holding each other.

To increase the chances of her reaching orgasm, either he or she can provide a little extra clitoral stimulation, and the man's regular thrusting may catch her G spot in just the right way to bring her to a rapid climax. It's also a lot more exciting to be having sex both in an unusual position and out of the bedroom, and the extra excitement of this can help take both partners to a quicker orgasm.

Next, there's a very loving position known as the spoons position. She lies on her side with her back towards the man, while he enters her from behind. This is a very easy position to get into, especially if she lifts her upper leg slightly while the man pushes into her, and it feels great for both partners. The man can reach around her, caress her breasts and kiss her neck and back, while she can play with her clitoris. Another great variation of this position is to make love on your sides while you face each other: it's easiest to get into this position by starting from the man on top, where she raises her legs and you both then roll over onto your sides.

Most men can keep thrusting for much longer in this position before reaching orgasm and ejaculating, as there's much less pressure on the penis: with the right amount of loving attention and perhaps a helping hand on her clitoris, she will reach orgasm before her man, and a couple may even enjoy the pleasure of simultaneous orgasm.

And lastly, what about the thrill of rear entry (aka doggy style)? It's many men's favorite position, raw, rude and raunchy, and usually makes men come quite quickly. But the surprising thing is that lots of women like it too, and there are plenty of good reasons for this. It allows deep penetration, it allows her to express her sexuality to the full (she can thrust, move and ride her man as she wishes) and, above all, it hits the spot - the G spot, that is! It's a very primal position, especially if the man reaches forward and holds her hips to guide her movements. If she raises her hips or lowers them, the man will get a lot of variation in sensation - so a couple can find the position that gives both partners the greatest pleasure.

There you are, then: a series of positions to try for the thrill of orgasm during intercourse. But if these positions don't do it for you, don't worry - just ensure she has her orgasm (with oral sex or manual stimulation) before the man enters her, and you'll both still be satisfied. While being able to reach orgasm during intercourse feels great, there are plenty of other ways of getting sexual satisfaction!
See http://www.howtobeorgasmic.com/ for more information on how to achieve orgasm during intercourse.

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Rod Phillips is a writer with www.howtobeorgasmic.com..

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