How to Act When You Like a Woman – Part 5
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How to Act When You Like a Woman – Part 5

By: David DeAngelo

BEING SOCIALLY ADJUSTED

I know that this sounds funny, but most of the people I know who are "un-cool" are not very adjusted socially.

They lack a certain something in the "social skills" department that makes it obvious to others (and especially to women) that they don't know how to relate very well to other people. They just never learned how to make others feel comfortable around them.

If you've ever known an accountant or computer programmer that was brilliantly smart, but totally boring, you know what I mean.

If people act kind of nervous, strange, and uncomfortable when they're around you, then you also know where I'm coming from on this.

I can't teach you how to make people feel comfortable around you in two sentences, but if you need to learn how to mix with people socially, then start paying attention to what's going on around you.

Watch how others dress, carry themselves, walk, and talk. Pay attention to little details... like saying, "What's up?" when you meet someone new, instead of "Hello, pleased to meet you" and such.

...now, is this all there is to being "cool"?

Of course not.

But it's a great start.

If you can first get yourself to the place where other people want to be around you just because they enjoy your company, you'll find that taking things to the next level with women will be about 10 times easier.

I've had this conversation with many of the guys I know who are successful with women, and they all basically say the same thing... you have to learn how to be "cool" and make others (women) feel comfortable just being in the same room with you. And if you're "cool", this happens almost instantly. If you're not "cool", then you're going to have a hard time making anyone feel comfortable with you... never mind having a woman feel attraction for you.

As a direct result of the things I've learned about how to be more successful with women and dating, I've also become more successful at things like being invited to "exclusive" parties, having famous and successful people pursue me as a friend, and just generally being invited into more "exclusive" social circles.

Why is this?

Well, for one thing, people who know a lot of "cool" or influential people are very careful about who they "bring along" to gatherings with friends.

The last thing someone "cool" needs in their life is an "un-cool" person making a jackass of themselves in front of all of their friends.

When you learn the art of being "cool", you start to attract other cool people. And those people will see that you're not insecure, emotionally unstable, clingy, and such. They'll see that you know how to handle yourself with other people (and with women), and they'll start introducing you to other cool people (including women) instead of running away from you.

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